FEAR?????

It is true that fear is a natural feeling, something that cannot be helped or controlled. It is positive as it set boundaries to what people might do and make sure they do not do crazy irrational stuff. However, it is a negative feeling as it sets constraints for oneself and makes us be cautious and not just believe in ourselves. Therefore, being a normal human being, I did have my fears. One of them was being judge by others. I had always feared what others might think of me. What they would say to me, whether I was liked or not or whether I am being remembered and such was always a concern for me. As a result, I am always concerned of what I wear, how I behave and such. This therefore was a constraint for me. It deters me from being myself and doing what I always wanted. I have to constantly put up an act just to please others and to make sure I was being like. This was very wrong. I was being a fake. I was not myself: the real Ruslan. Luckily for me, this fear of mine never lasted long. As I grew up and matured, I gain more self-confidence and self-respect and I no longer was bothered of what others might think. I was more concerned for what I think and what I believe in. This therefore led to a saying I truly believe in that is what I think of myself is much more important than what others think.