Thursday, May 15, 2008
What I See Myself in in the future?
Sometimes whom I would be in the future. Do i want to be a lawyer, doctor? A successful happy married family man with tons of kids? Or just a single unmarried kasanova bachelor? Well, after thinking for sometime i can finally see what i'm gonna do in future. Well, in the years to come, i would be studying in ngee ann poly excelling to the best of my potential. Then, i would graduate wif a good score and would answer to the call of duty. I hope to be in the commandos serving wif all the great man and having as high a rank as possible. After that, i was thinkning of signing on in NS if i were to have good pay to insure that my income is always good. While doing so, i would like to take a degree course part time and intending to end by the age of 27. Then i intend to start a business wif the knowledge i have and money collected while working. Not forgetting my social life, i intend to be married by the ageof 30 and settle down and have kids by the age of 40 while my business is hopefully doing well. And so hopeully thats how my life would be and thus retire by the age of like 60+ and have a good time enjoying the rest of my life.
Thursday, May 8, 2008
i. What are 6 adjectives which best describe you? These can be from outside the list. Think about the evidence or your past experiences that support their accuracy.
1.Confidence – I love everything bout myself and am very confident of myself
2.Outspoken – I like to talk a lot
3.Optimistic – I always think of the bright side of life
4.Determined – When i have something in mind i go for it whole heartedly and make it a point to get it done and don’t give up no matter what.
5.Happy – Motto “Don’t Worry Be Happy”
6. Self-aware – I know who i am and assured of myself
ii. From the list of adjectives that you scored 3, identify the ones which you best like about yourself. Why are they important to you?
1.Confident, cause this way i won’t get hurt by what others say or think of me and that i would be happy and comfortable in my own skin.
2.Optimistic, cause i don’t like to see the bad side of things and get upset over it as i believe life isn’t worth living if i’m not happily enjoying everything bout it.
3.Tolerant, cause i would not get upset easily or bothered thus enjoying everything else.
iii. From the list of adjectives that you scored 0, write down the ones you would like to improve. How are you going to develop these characteristics?
Observant, i am as blur as sotong. Even though so, i would like to improve it by trying to be more aware of things try to be more OBSERVANT.
Public Self
This is what I share with others about me:I am friendly and outgoing. I like to meet new pple and make new frens.
Private Self
Think about how much of your private self you are willing to share. What are the benefits or drawbacks to sharing aspects of your private self?
There are layers of me. I have varying personality and traits depending with occasion. I can be sensitive and warm at times and on the other hand can be very crazy and irrational. Thats just me.
Refer to your Personal Inventory and write down 5 affirming statements that you can make about yourself?
I’m HOT
I’m HAPPY
I’m SMART
I’m HANDSOME
I’m A MAN
What are some of the limiting beliefs that you hold? Take a few minutes to reflect on the impact it has on your self-esteem, your relationships, and actions.
I sometimes have this idea that everything else is going against me that is why i always make it a point to work harder than others and outdo them. Thi s makes me feel too independent and sometimes make me feel that i’m alone and nobody knows me better than me myself and make me wanna grow stronger mentally and physically to face any challenges.
1.Confidence – I love everything bout myself and am very confident of myself
2.Outspoken – I like to talk a lot
3.Optimistic – I always think of the bright side of life
4.Determined – When i have something in mind i go for it whole heartedly and make it a point to get it done and don’t give up no matter what.
5.Happy – Motto “Don’t Worry Be Happy”
6. Self-aware – I know who i am and assured of myself
ii. From the list of adjectives that you scored 3, identify the ones which you best like about yourself. Why are they important to you?
1.Confident, cause this way i won’t get hurt by what others say or think of me and that i would be happy and comfortable in my own skin.
2.Optimistic, cause i don’t like to see the bad side of things and get upset over it as i believe life isn’t worth living if i’m not happily enjoying everything bout it.
3.Tolerant, cause i would not get upset easily or bothered thus enjoying everything else.
iii. From the list of adjectives that you scored 0, write down the ones you would like to improve. How are you going to develop these characteristics?
Observant, i am as blur as sotong. Even though so, i would like to improve it by trying to be more aware of things try to be more OBSERVANT.
Public Self
This is what I share with others about me:I am friendly and outgoing. I like to meet new pple and make new frens.
Private Self
Think about how much of your private self you are willing to share. What are the benefits or drawbacks to sharing aspects of your private self?
There are layers of me. I have varying personality and traits depending with occasion. I can be sensitive and warm at times and on the other hand can be very crazy and irrational. Thats just me.
Refer to your Personal Inventory and write down 5 affirming statements that you can make about yourself?
I’m HOT
I’m HAPPY
I’m SMART
I’m HANDSOME
I’m A MAN
What are some of the limiting beliefs that you hold? Take a few minutes to reflect on the impact it has on your self-esteem, your relationships, and actions.
I sometimes have this idea that everything else is going against me that is why i always make it a point to work harder than others and outdo them. Thi s makes me feel too independent and sometimes make me feel that i’m alone and nobody knows me better than me myself and make me wanna grow stronger mentally and physically to face any challenges.
Thursday, May 1, 2008
. Your Personal Inventory
We have positive (as well as negative) qualities but often do not take the time to identify them. Now take some time to think about how you see yourself in terms of your personality, character, how you relate to others, etc. Be as objective and realistic as possible.
Read the list of words below and score each as follows:
Almost never 0
Sometimes 1
Often 2
Almost Always 3
We have positive (as well as negative) qualities but often do not take the time to identify them. Now take some time to think about how you see yourself in terms of your personality, character, how you relate to others, etc. Be as objective and realistic as possible.
Read the list of words below and score each as follows:
Almost never 0
Sometimes 1
Often 2
Almost Always 3
SELF-AWAREness
Everyone has issues. Thats what i think(may not be true though). But i would like to think i have managed most of my issues. I know myself best. I would disagree wif anyone who says he/she knows me better than me myself. I use to dislike alot of things about myself like my figure and all, i had self- esteem issues. But i guess now i no longer have that. I am very confident bout myself now. To me, what i think of myself is what matters to me 99% of the time. Sometimes others mistook it for ego. But to me, i couldn't be bothered. I make my own self. I am my own person. What i think is what i am.What u see of me is what u get. If anyone is not happy with me its up to them to worry bout and none of my business to be bothered. To me, as long as i am happy with myself i shouldn't be bothered with what others think. Cause everyone has his or her different way of thinking and therefore, what i think may differ from them and vice versa. I know sometimes people think i live in my own world, DELUSIONAL. Cause in my 'world' only what i think matters. And so be it. I'll just live my way. heeeeeeeeeee..............
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